My spouse and I understand each other and this will ssave my marriage.  Be frank with each other about where your relationship stands.  If you are on a rocky road right now accept it and try to resolve your differences.  Being in denial about your problems will not resolve them.  It will only cause your marriage to grow further into a stage of being unresolved. 

Make an effort to understand how your partner feels about something that as going to present a potential problem.  My marriage can be saved if I just try to understand my partner just a little bit more – Think about it.